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Apathy Towards Life?; Just A Little Rant
Topic Started: Oct 3 2013, 10:27 PM (2,276 Views)
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You can even switch almost anytime you want. The first two years you can switch guaranteed, but the next two are tricky because you'll be taking major classes then. Even then you can switch, but you'd just end up being in college longer.

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In that case, i'll be in college until i'm buryed in a grave XD
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Oct 4 2013, 08:02 PM
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My opinion on this is try to look at the positives and be humble about it. Look at the privileges some people don't have. Homeless, starvation, Going through war, cheap labour in poorer countries. Half the human population live in these situations. Don't feel bad just enjoy the present and the things you can be humble about. Things like being rich or popular doesn't matter because you still feel the same anyway because ours minds will always try to find something else to complain about etc.


I never said I wanted to be rich/popular. I espically wouldn't want to be popular.

Just because people live like that in other countries, it doesn't mean that somehow makes my life a Wonderland. That just makes it badder for them when it's only merly bad for me.
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Only a very very small amount of people have no problems in there life. Happiness is a state of mind. I don't enjoy my work but if I think about it as in "this jobs sucks can't wait to leave" daily or so then the anger and depression would manifest in me. Obviously there's some things that will make someone unhappy no matter what they do like losing a family member etc.
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We are just going to be going in circles and circles with this conversation because he sees everything as a dead end when it really isn't the case at all.

In the U.S, you can enter into a University/College as an undecided student. It isn't until your junior year that you are pushed into choosing. Those two years you take numerous classes from art, music, history, match, etc that will probably give you a better idea of what you want to be studying.
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Oct 4 2013, 07:14 PM
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From what I gathered from your posts here you seem to have a significant lack of social interaction with others outside of this forum and the computer, which is not anything to be ashamed of and you're definitely not alone in this. It is however (from what I'm seeing here) the main source of your apathy in my opinion. I feel like the more you seclude yourself from the things in your real life the bigger your apathy will become. It's not in vain that the number one advice you're given by psychologists throughout the world when you're entering a depression is that you need to find ways of keeping yourself occupied and giving yourself a structured routine. And while watching anime and chatting on forums is definitely a good way of passing your time, it's often times used as a form of distraction from your real life that can potentially become negative when it's used to the point of neglecting important things in your life. This can be said about anything, not just anime or videogames, but pretty much everything you do within your comfort zone that ends up blocking you from stepping out of that comfort zone and face your real life challenges.
And it's tricky because I know many cases of people who've used the internet in general as a platform to "escape" their lives for such a long period of time that when they finally start feeling like changing things up a bit they find themselves in a position where they didn't learn many social skills growing up and can get a lot of anxiety just from going out and doing the most simple activities. I don't know if this is the case with you or not, but if it is I can give you some more personal tips on how to overcome that social anxiety.


I think you should read the OP Strawberry. I speicfically said that going outside my comfort zone is the exact thing that makes me miserable. I absoultely detest going to social gatherings, parties, or anything of that nature. It makes me sick having to do that.

I'm only happy when i'm alone and chilling doing something like being on the internet or other stuff I mentioned. When I do that, I feel at home. When i'm not doing that, everything is like work for me.
I did read the OP and I never suggested you became a social butterfly. However, the only thing you're doing by refusing to step out of your comfort zone is sabotaging yourself. I'm not telling you to go to parties and become someone you're not, but life isn't only made by things that makes us feel comfortable and that's just the way it is. It's extremely irrealistic of you to expect things to get better in your life if you're not willing to make small steps into different directions and take some chances in your life. That's part of growing up as well.
But again, I don't know nearly enough about you to actually help you and it seems like you don't necessarily want any help to begin with. So all I can say is that I hope you find ways to tone down your social anxiety on your own and if nothing works there's always professional help for you that you can seek out. I've done that for different reasons in the past, many people I know have done it, and it's really nothing to be ashamed of. Good luck with everything!

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